Will you find LOVE in Brazil? 10 Things to know about dating in Brazil.

In a country that embraces sexuality, sensuality, and a fun-loving spirit, dating in Brazil can be relatively “easy”. (Not for me *rolling my eyes*)

If you’re looking for a passionate romance, Brazilians will definitely make you swoon.

So, without making any boring introduction, here are some things to know about dating in Brazil

Keep in mind that some of this may be a little bit generalized. The shared opinions are simply based on my own experience. *Drum roll*

1. J e a l o u s y:

Don’t be surprised at how much jealousy your Brazilian sweetheart will show. Brazilian men don't like to watch their ladies getting hit on. If another guy tries to approach you when you’re with your amazing Brazilian boyfriend, prepare yourself to see some actions! Brazilians tend to get super upset and agitated when someone tries to make a move on their ladies – How SWEET right?-

2. They are quite possessive:

“When couples go out together, they tend to stay attached at the hip.” – (A Brazilian rule that I proudly made)

It’s strange to go out WITHOUT your significant other in Brazil –your guy knows you’re going to get hit on and he wouldn’t stand that-. Even when you just want some “alone time” (to do some shopping, or to travel to a certain place), your Brasileiro hubby will take it personally and he will eventually assume that you don't like him anymore. (Straight out of a telenovela right?)

3. Brazilians tend to be very into the Facebook relationship:

I have never been a fan of being “in a relationship” on Facebook. But in Brazil, things are different; they want to make it clear for everyone that you two are in a relationship on Facebook by changing your status or using a photo with them as a profile pic.

4. Brazilians jump into relationships very quickly (Starting to “Namorar”):

Everything is much more relaxed in Brazil, including dating. The pressure to establish and label relationships is not as prevalent as it is in other countries. In Brazil, if two people are into one another, have been on a few dates, then it’s pretty much understood that they are together, and soon after, they will officially namorar (and you can probably see proof of that on Facebook).

5. If you date a Brazilian guy, you’ll date his whole family:

Brazilian people have a really strong bond towards their family and this is very common here –which I find it VERY interesting and beautiful- So when you are dating a Brazilian guy, you will also date the whole family. What I mean by that is you will feel like your partner’s family is an inseparable part of your relationship. You will have family dinners together, “Churrasco” during the weekend and you will spend every single holiday at their house –Especially if you’re a foreigner- You’ll feel like you have a second family in Brazil. This might be unsettling but chill out mate! Their families are very welcoming and friendly.

6. Last minute date? No problem!

- “Vamos jantar na quarta nesse restaurante” (Let’s have dinner on Wednesday at this restaurant)

–But but.. Today is Wednesday and it’s already 8 PM.

- “isso! Vamos agora” (Let’s go now)

Dating is a pretty big step. Most couples will probably plan the place, time and attire days before so they can prepare themselves. But that is not the case with Brazilians. Brazilian people love a spontaneous act, especially in dating. They rarely plan a date days before. An invitation to a date will usually come last minute when you least expect it, and you are expected to come. If you are dating a Brazilian, bring your A game to work guuurl because a love adventure might just be waiting for you in a minute or two!

7. They are extremely expressive and “Carinhoso” :

Brazilians will SHOWER you with compliments. It is almost as if it’s in their DNA to flatter women; they just can't help it. They seem to know exactly what to say to make a girl feel special, like she is the only girl who exists. These are a few of the compliments that a girl might hear in Brazil ;

“Nossa, você é muito linda.” (Wow you are so beautiful).

“Você tem olhos sinistros” (you have incredible eyes).

“A Beleza do deuses!” (The beauty of gods).

Most Brazilians will really show their affection towards you even when they have only been with you in two or three hours. In the dating culture in Brazil, showing affection publicly is a very important part in a relationship and it will tell your partner that they are wanted and needed by you.

8. Kissy kissy booboo :

If you are on a date with a Brazilian guy, rest assured, he will try to kiss you moments after meeting you.

A Brazilian guy once told me that 5 minutes is enough time to wait to kiss someone. They will either flat out try to kiss you, or tell you that they want to kiss you.

Keep in mind, however, kissing does not mean much of anything in Brazil. If you kiss someone in a bar or club, even if the guy tells you how in love he is with you at the time, it’s safe to expect that you will never see them again.

Another Brazilian friend told me how he thought it was strange that people don’t really kiss at clubs in other countries – because in Brazil, everyone kisses someone when they go out.

9. They are charming:

I admire how ballsy Brazilian men are. They’re confident, charming and totally tough to resist. The typical Brazilian guy wastes no time. He’ll gaze at you with such intensity and desire; when he locks eyes with you, he wouldn't let go. He is seductive, charming, passionate, flattering, and persistent. He will sweep you off of your feet. This is the powerful, irresistible lure of the “Brasileiro”. Between showering you with compliments, being touchy-feely and seductively locking eyes with you, it can be hard to resist the charm of many Brazilian men. They are the true definition of suave.

10. Being disloyal is NO surprise:

Fidelity on the whole is less strict than in Tunisia (+1 Tunisian boys). Faithfulness comes in different forms and shapes in Brazil. Brazilians are known for their loose and playful life, so it is not surprising to find out that your partner has cheated on you. However, if you expect your man to be always faithful, you will have to discuss this issue to make sure you’re on the same page. Because, according to them, love is one thing, fidelity is another.

Brasileiro BONUS: They can make the best boyfriends

Once you manage to get a Brazilian guy to fall in love with you, he is the best partner you can have. Not only is he an excellent family man, but he is equipped with a zest for life that will ensure you endless outdoorsy adventures.

One friendly advice; There are some dickheads in Brazil, and also many good guys. It is up to you to sort them.

(More to come potato-heads)